Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Masai is not only a tribe of people in Kenya
Monday, October 29, 2007
legally homesick. episode 1. (short version!)
Before Ms. Todd and Ms. Aubrey left, I wasn't homesick, but I felt it coming like a tidal wave or a bad joke, and I asked them any good coping strategies for November, since I hate it (it's not quite October or December--it's the limbo period that gives you time to mull over things a tad too much.) They gave me some really good advice.
1) Sleep well and stay hydrated. Basic physical health, take care of myself and I will feel better. Naturally. For example...I was a little sad and homesick-y at the end of school. I went to track and field afterwards, and was much happier, due to the magic of endorphins. To quote the movie Legally Blonde, "Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy. Happy people just don't shoot their husbands, they just don't." Yes.
2) Stay busy. To quote Sarah Todd, who was quoting Josh Ellis, "The busier, the easier it is." I definitely second this, and I think that will be vital to surviving my least favorite month. I am sooo lucky because Julia is here, and I will try to get together with her soon. Also, I think that I am going to go to Tokyo DisneySea after Masai, and then Kyoto and Nara in 3 weeks, so I am really looking forward to those things. And in December, my dad will come! So in a few days, I can say that it will be one month until he comes! I am really really really super looking forward to this.
3) Remember that time here goes so fast. Even now, it seems like last week that I came to Japan. I know that seems cliche "My! How you've grown dearie! Time flies so fast!", but it's so true. I know I will have my not-as-good days, but Sakurai-sensei assured me that of course that's okay, and, in her words, "You are so nice! You are too nice! You need to be not as nice!" {in regards to being homesick-free everyday until now} so I will have to work on that. My dad has his saying that I think of a lot, which is, "Every day won't be a personal best." So, yeah.
So those are my pillars for general peace of mind and happiness, as inspired and documented from Ms. Todd, Ms. Aubrey, Josh, Reese Witherspoon, cliches, Sakurai-sensei, and my dad. I'm sure that this could come off as sentimental and inspired, but for now, that's all I got. No pictures.
PS I'm not homesick right now. Like I mentioned before, it was a short-lived homesickness, but the first real episode here. I have sunken back into life here; bounced back very quickly, due to endorphins and my general feeling that there is so much to enjoy here that I shouldn't spend my precious limited time missing what I will come back to in less than a year. It's just too much fun and I'm too busy right now for that. =)
Sunday, October 28, 2007
A run that was fun and, of course, a shrine for kicks
Wednesday, October 17, 2007
Sports festival and the Paee-Eeeahsss-Ayyyy-Taaaeeee
PS I had to finish this blog post on Thursday due to picture malfunction. I would like to add the interesting tidbit of the day: today, a very old woman totally cut me when I was about to sit down. She pushed me out of the way with her cane and everything. I was shocked and automatically relinquished my seat--partially because I really couldn't do anything about it, and anyway, it was an old woman--although she brandished her cane like a bayonet. Pretty amusing for me.
Monday, October 15, 2007
Catch up and chili
So, the concert: as in America, classical music is not nearly as appreciated by the younger generation of people as a whole, thus about 97% of the attending audience was over 50, as an observation. This is always the first thing I notice about classical concerts. The music was really good. I wish I knew where the program was--there was a really really good Saint-Seans piece (it sounded remniscent of Carnival of the Animals' "Fossils," though...) and as a whole was very very good. Unfortunately, I was very very tired, so I was stuck between a rock and Kobayashi-sensei as I tried not to nod off--it was very hard, though. Oops...I'm just not usually one to fall asleep during concerts--although there was this older man behind us who was a real snorer. Nice touch to the concert, I think. This was interesting--at the end, the orchestra played, as an encore, "Stars and Stripes Forever," which, oddly enough, seemed slightly out of place with the general setting. I asked Kobayashi-sensei about it, and she thought that it was because the conductor usually conducts in NYC, but still, it was very strange.
I have had track and field practice every day except Wednesday this past week, as everyone is trying to get ready for the school sports festival. And I now randomly digress: In general in Japan, I definitely fell like it's: "Jump" "How high?" scenario all the time...but that is the culture, and I am trying so many more things because of it--the one thing I feel that people lose in this sort of societal feeling is the ability to be as self-controlling and opinionated...everything is ultimately for the greater good, and about thinking for the group first before anything. People automatically put the group's self interest first, and this is the reason for the large-scale harmony that sets Japan apart from America, for one. As my host father said to me, "Japanese people have a very difficult time saying yes or no." This has both its pros and cons--I really do love the utopian-esque feeling I have had on multiple occasions when I had difficulty with something (eg, getting home on a different train) and the group of people I am with stop everything, give me directions, send a person to show me where to go, give their cell phone numbers, check in on me later...and this isn't only me, although this treatment is often an immediate precaution to any question I have since I frequent the Tokyo scene as the touristy lost exchange student. Anyway, they go the full 9 yards for each other, too--all for the well-being of the bigger picture. However, this atmosphere in the status quo does limit out having big rebellions or talking out or openly hating the government, unless, of course, is it a colossal majority movement across the nation--and even that would be well thought-out, organized, and the definite consensus. Pity, since I wanted to have a large-scale protest at my girls' school...not. Maybe later.
Later last week, I tried to find a store selling traditional Japanese souveneir-y things (being the adamant tourist that I am) that Sakurai-sensei told me about because 4 friends at home had their birthdays and 2 here have birthdays coming up--most unfortunately, I couldn't find it, but as I was in Kichi-joji, which is a bigger part of Tokyo and has this really cool park, I decided to walk around and chill in Inokashira-koen, the park. I mosied (moseyed?) around, and strangely enough, ran into my homeroom teacher/track-and-field coach, which is pretty unlikely--considering the 12 million people in Japan, the probability of knowing very many, and then both people being at the same place in a city as huge as Tokyo. After the park and meeting my teacher briefly, I went back towards the shopping area of Kichi-joji and found this small card and stamps shop. I bought some cards to send to my birthday friends, but not after finding out that one was intended as a wedding card. Regardless, I bought it, though (*cough* tourist *cough*) because it was so beautiful and who will know besides me? And you, but you won't REALLY know.
Fast forward to Sunday. I went to MISHOP, an international peeps fest, and helped my friends, including Mami, Sayuri, and Erika in their Phillipines booth (all of the g
・いらしゃいませ!Irashaimase! = General "welcome," used by vendors of any sort
・マンゴバナナイ食べませんか!mango banana isu tabemasenka? = wouldn't you like some mango banana ice (cream)?
・おいしいよっ! Oishiiyoooooo! = very delicious!
This was a novel experience, as wearing a sign and shouting in and of itself requires little inhibiti
Interesting thing about the salons here--would you like your hair washed by a person or a machine?
But Sunday wasn't over yet! I had volunteered before to make Mexican food for my host family. The
Today I had Ethics and Christianity again. I have to do a project about Christian history (specificaly, the pope) for the class in my assigned group. This could be interesting--but, before anything is interesting, my group has to do some work, which we can't do now, due to an unforseen language barrier. It will be okay, since Natsu is in my group and speaks English reasonably well, but today she was sick, so it was an unproductive affair. Very boring, but should improve. After school, club was optional, and I was tired, so I was going when I met my friends Ruriko (better known as Muffin, as the nickname I gave her randomly stuck) and Asako on the train. Of course, purikura followed.
Tomorrow is the school sports festival, which means that I jumprope, do a 3 person line relay、a 3 person carrying relay, a 1k, and hurdles. Sports day is a very big deal, but there's not too much to explain at the moment--but many pictures to follow!
Wednesday is the PSAT! Ka-ching shazam! I'm excited--don't ask me why. =)
Must sleep....must sleep....must.....sleeeeeeep.....must....
Friday, October 5, 2007
beginnings of new things and endings of others, like 13 year old toy poodles
I did mention sometime in the past that I joined track and field, right? I think so. If not, I will assure you I did. Even though it is not rooted in ancient tradition that requires special inscense and attire, I am really happy with my track and field girls. I tried kendo club (Japanese fencing) on Tuesday, but it really wasn't the club I wanted to join. From what I could tell, they spent 20 minutes of practice bringing down the wooden sword in a special way while simultaneously jumping to and fro, then for the rest of practice donned seriously heavy armor-gear (rooted in ancient tradition) and hit each other over the head for the rest of practice in a fixed manner. I am not joking. I felt that I prefered not to sustain extensive damage to my brain cells, and I was already friends with everyone in track and field, and I really like to run a lot, so...anyway. I joined the club, though, and then promptly hurt both legs trying to naively teach myself the splits, then do hurdles during PE the next few days. A bit of bad judgment, ending in Japanese cooling compresses. =)
Just to make the chronological order of events in this blog entry more confusing, last weekend I got together with Julia Blood, who, 4 years ago (I think that's right) went on this exchange trip. She is now in Japan again for another year as a college student at a university here as a Japan major. It was really great to see her and talk with her, because in my opinion, I think we have a lot in common. Regardless, we had a lot of fun talking about Japan, its quirks and differences from the US. I was really happy to see her b
ecause, right now, in all honesty, I am not homesick at all, and really haven't been since the plane trip over (which I will add was one of the hardest things I've ever done.) Multiple people have told me that the 4-6 week point is when they get very homesick, but so far I have just been taking it all in and really enjoying how different Japan is and how amazing everyone I have met is. But back to Julia; she told me that she was really only homesick during Christmas, because she wasn't around her family then as she had been everytime before then. I realized that it's okay if I'm not homesick--there is no established standard of when I need to be. So...that was very nice to hear, because that had been bugging me that week. Also, we had dessert after lunch at this random coffee shop we found, contemplated ordering sweet potato icecream, but instead shared chocolate cake and acacai (sp?) icecream, which I only metion because it was a rainy day and the dessert was tasty, making the overall effect delicious.
Where was I on the chronological-as-possible week timeline? Okay, I think Thursday, maybe. No, no idea.
A random tidbit as I try to remember what happens next: my friend Kana on track and field team has a pet chipmunk. Another: Everytime I am conjugating verbs during Japanese class and I get to the verb "shinu," which means to die, Kobayashi-sensei talks about her toy poodle that died at 13 years of age. One more random thing is that in Japanese, the number 4 is pronounced as both "yon" and "shi," shi meaning death. I had heard before that sometimes buildings skip Rm. 4, the fourth floor, etc. On the train, though, I saw a parking lot with parking spots labeled 1,2,3,5. Also, in hospitals, there is no Rm. 4. I think that that is enough random tidbits for now.
On Tuesday, I went to Natsu's grandparents' house and ate dinner, as I do every week. Her grandmother (Obaachan) made a typical Japanese dinner for us, which was very good. I was trying everything, and was about to put something that looked reasonably normal in my mouth, when I noticed it, rather, they were staring at me. They were these very little skinny fish I was expected to gulp down whole and en masse. This was a bit of a disorienting goal--generally, I prefer my food to not be be having a face off with me-- so naturally, I spent about 10 minutes staring them down, then Natsu counted to 3 and I ate them (But not before a picture!) . They were salty. If you were wondering. Unfortunately, their name escapes me.
Reminder! Monday, there is no school, and I will go to the concert with Kobayashi-sensei!
Saturday, there was a half-day of school so we could come and listen to the daigakusee (college students) talk about hunger. At least, that's what I think they were talking about for almost 2 hours non-stop. I will openly admit that I had one of the most boring experiences of my life. I didn't understand about 99.32% of what they said, and I couldn't sleep, so I sat there with the same expression as the fish I ate at Obaachan's house (staring forward, mouth slightly open, dazed look). Afterwards, everyone wrote their feelings about the presentation. I wrote that I could tell that there was obviously a lot of effort put into the presentation (they had about 5 slideshows and talked the entire time); unfortunately, I was unable to appreciate it due to a linguistic barrier--aka I was pretty dang bored, better luck next time. Sorry for pessimism, but it was not a great, meaningful experience for me for obvious reasons.
But! In about 2 weeks, Sakurai-sensei has invited me to do a 5k (perhaps 10k, depending) Halloween fun run with her. That is exciting. I am looking forward to it, even though I didn't pack anything particularly costume-like for Halloween-fun-run-purposes. I am most likely going to go with the default no-fail 80's workout look, easily executed and maintained. Other ideas are welcome, too...=)
So, all in all, not the most exciting flare-and-fireworks week, but not a bad week, either.